EDUCATING OUR CHILDREN
I have already mentioned the verse of the Torah, "You shall teach them
to your children, and speak about them..." (Duet. 6:7). Every mother
and father who recites this verse twice a day is obligated that the
voice of G-d should penetrate into his midst and his substance. He
should be aroused to cry out, "This is my portion for all my toil." If
my children follow in my footsteps and remain faithful to their
Creator, then my name will be engraved for eternity and there will have
been a purpose to my life.
...It must be asked if every one of our women sit down sometimes to
think and make an accounting of the question, "What is it to educate a
child?" What is involved in educating this delicate creation which was
deposited in our hands by the Creator, to make him a man and a true
Jew?
Do the parents take into consideration that their own behavior is the
first and foremost influence on the child as a model?
Therefore, parents must first live their own lives properly and nobly,
imbued with the spirit of Torah and tradition, in order to implant love
of Torah and Judaism into their delicate children. Would it be that
mothers were diligent to educate their children while they are still
young and delicate. Instead of nourishing their minds with fairytales
about witches and little red riding hoods and things like that, they
should be teaching them from the first moment to say the words of the
shema. They should explain to them in attractive children's language
what the words mean. They should tell them about all the wonders and
miracles that G-d has done for us throughout history, and what He wants
from us. Then the child will grow up to become an admirable and
honorable person.
If the child is accustomed to the mitzvot while he is still in diapers,
then it will definitely not become a burden upon him afterwards. If he
is nourished on stories about our sages and gedolim, such as Rabbi
Akiva and all the others who devoted their lives to Torah and kedushah,
then the child will understand the exaltedness of our nation who will
endure forever whether we are on our Land or not because the Torah is
the condition of our endurance.
(The writings os Sarah Shnirer, p.40)