EDUCATING OUR CHILDREN
FEAR OF HEAVEN
When your son arrives at the age for study, do not ascertain for him
any teacher who is not wise and does not fear heaven. Thus it is
written, "The fear of Heaven is the beginning of knowledge..."
(Proverbs 1:7). In this way he will enter into yirat shamayim.
(Sefer Chasidim 155)
It seems that one of the requirements for teachers is that he should
fear Heaven especially at the time when he is teaching the children.
Words which come from a heart full of awe and trepidation enter into
the heart of the youth, and excite them with a flaming fire fear and
love of G-d. This is why it is written, "These words which I have
commanded you this day shall be upon your heart...." Then it is
written, "And teach them to your children..." (Dueteronomy 6:6-7).
The opposite is also true. Even if he is learned and academically
efficient, but his heart is not straight with G-d, then his word is a
ruse and destroys the child....
(Chidushei Chatam Sofer, Baba Batra 21a)
"The beginning of wisdom is the fear of G-d...." Therefore, although a
teacher must be learned and academically accomplished, he must, first
of all, fear G-d. Although he must study with the children a lot, and
be careful that they understand and do not become confused, he must,
first, have the quality of yirat shamayim. If he does not have this
quality, then it is prohibited to give children into his care to study
with him.
A father who does not give his children to teachers with yirat shamayim
is excommunicated in Heaven. Chazal have said that there are seven
types which are excommunicated in Heaven, and one of them is a person
who does not raise his children in the study of Torah. The study of
Torah must be as the Torah itself has defined it: namely, "...in order
to learn to fear G-d...."
(Kiyum Hatorah, 2:3)