EDUCATING OUR CHILDREN
It happened that the holy rabbi, our teacher, the author of the No'am
Elimelech, the Rebbe Elimelech of Lizensk, hired a teacher for his
sons. Of course, this teacher was very knowledgeable and a man of yirat
shamayim who feared the awe of G-d. If he merited to be a hired as a
teacher in the house of the Rebbe Elimelech, he certainly was not an
average person. However, the sons of the Rebbe Elimelech did not want
to study with him. Even if they were punished, it did not help. They
did not want to study with the teacher.
When the matter came before the Rebbe Elimelech, he investigated the
background and character of the teacher. He found that the man truly
feared G-d and worshipped Him exceptionally. The Rebbe was amazed that
his sons did not want to study with this man.
The Rebbe called for the teacher and together they discussed the
problem. Thus, the Rebbe learned that when this teacher was a young
boy he had studied with a teacher who also knew secular literature.
The Rebbe said, "This is the reason that my sons do not want to study
with you. Although you have corrected any influence that the secular
literature known to your teacher may have had upon you, the evil has
nevertheless left an impression which you have not yet entirely
uprooted. My sons feel it, and that is why they do not want to study
with you...."
This teacher, who was hired to teach in the house of the holy and
divinely inspired Rebbe Elimelech, must certainly have been a great man
and talmid chacham. Nevertheless, consider what happened to him because
of the influence of books known to the teacher who taught him when he
was a small boy. Therefore, what can be said of parents who give their
children to teachers who do not fear G-d, or to teachers who themselves
read the books of heretics, or those who allow their children to read
these books and study from them? What will they be able to say in the
great and awesome Day of Judgement, in the day that G-d reviews their
sin? Who knows if all the fires of hell will be a sufficient punishment
for their terrible sin?
Anyone who maintains even a bit of yirat shamayim within his heart must
dedicate everything that he has in order to assure that his children
will be in the hands of teachers who are known since their youth to
fear the awe of G-d. He must do this at any cost, even if he has to go
around begging to pay for it....
Afterwards, if it happens that for some reason known to G-d his efforts
for his children do not yield properly (and they go off the way), in
the end they will repent and do teshuvah. The impression which a
teacher who fears G-d imprints upon children cannot be lost forever. It
is something that endures forever if the father and mother do not
destroy it in some other way, g-d forbid.
(Shomer Emunim, Emunah, Ch.4)